Dear Abby,

My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning, and, when I confront him, he denies
everything. What's worse, everyone knows that he cheats on me. It is so humiliating.

Also, since he lost his job four years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does all day is smoke cigars,
cruise around, and talk with his buddies while I have to work to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to
college he doesn't even pretend to like me and hints that I may be a lesbian. What should I do?

Signed,
Clueless
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Dear Clueless,

Grow up and dump him. Good grief, woman. You don't need him any more. You're a United States Senator from
New York. Act like it!